Starting a new chapter

I think the title says it all. I'm starting a new chapter in my life and instead of focusing on others and their wants and needs, I'm going to be selfish and think about myself for once. I think a quote from Cristina Yang (Sandra Oh) from Grey's Anatomy, pretty much explains the last year of my life.

"He took something from me. He took little pieces of me, little pieces over time, so small I didn't even notice, you know? He wanted me to be something I wasn't, and I made myself into what he wanted...And that will never happen again."

I used to be such a strong willed person. Where did she go? I'm not sure, but I'm going to find her.